On July 4 we went to a friend's backyard BBQ. I was exhausted afterwards so missed the fireworks show in Goleta, but Mike took the boys for a fun time that night. Then, on July 5, I was still so tired and didn't have much appetite. I didn't eat until the afternoon and that evening, while I sat on the couch, distracted by the computer, Mike gave me two shrimp that became my demise. Within 2 hours my stomach was violently protesting, and I lost so much fluid out the forward and aft that I couldn't sit up any longer and Mike had to rush me to the hospital ER. They pumped me with IV fluids and the meds I needed to stop the severe stomach pain and I was better pretty quickly. I stayed overnight and was able to leave by mid-afternoon the next day. They ruled it food poisoning after determining there were no infections.
On Saturday, the 11th, the wonderful Steffen's had us over for my first birthday breakfast (thank you!) On Sunday, the 12th, my dad and his wife Martha came to visit for my and Adam's birthday. They took us to Paula's Pancake House for my birthday breakfast on Monday. I spent a lot of energy enjoying their visit by cooking, visiting Solvang, going out to eat, shopping, and even golfing (I just drove the cart), and of course there were our birthdays on Monday and Tuesday to celebrate. For Adam's birthday on the 14th, I made a great grilled shrimp and corn salad, topped off with a Royal Velvet cake from Anna's Bakery. Shrimp again. Within 2 hours, I suddenly had the violent gastronomical event happening again and I begged Mike to take me to the ER before it got as bad as last time! It was a good move. Again, I was helped and the next day able to return home in the late afternoon. The doctors asked me if my skin had been flushed when I was getting sick. In fact, it had been noticeably enough that I had mentioned that to Mike...all my skin was pink/red. That is a sign there was a lot of histamine in my blood, an allergy. Ohhhh! So that first incident wasn't food poisoning after all, it was an allergy to shrimp! Even last weekend, after an ice skating party, we went to TGIF's and I, of course, am staying away from shrimp, but almost every meal they have has shrimp. We ordered appetizers, and the nachos had grilled chicken on them. Later I was getting really nauseated in the order of the last 2 ER events, so I think that TGIF's probably grills its shrimp on the same grill as its chicken, causing contamination. When I realized this, I took a benadryl and went to bed - I'd also overdone it going to our ice skating party - I was in bed at 7 PM for the night! The benadryl seemed to work though so no ER for me!
The kids have been having a blast with our weekly writing class with 10 students at our house, golfing, bike riding to the beach with their dad a couple times, birthdays, ice skating, Cinderella rehearsals, and surf camp. Between that and the regular household chores, farm day on Thursdays, and looking for a good dog for our family, I've been quite tired lately. I also have been getting more sun than I probably should which is very difficult living in such a beautiful sunny climate. Getting worn out and too much sun has probably contributed to my GVHD (graft vs. host disease) getting worse. So we upped my dosage of prednisone to suppress my immune system more which I'll be weaning back down over the next several weeks. My doctor is pleased with the progress I've made and, at the last visit, admitted, "maybe we've been a little too hard on you," meaning he keeps pushing to cut down my meds and also expects me to not have all this fatigue and GVHD.
The wierd thing is at the same time I was having those stomach problems, which could have been GVHD-related, but we think is a shrimp allergy, my friend Terry who got his transplant at the same time as me, was also having the same stomach ailment symptoms I was having! His was a gallstone blockage and he's at UCLA having his gallbladder removed, bummer! At my last visit to UCLA, we were able to visit Terry and Monica as well as Elizabeth from Santa Barbara who is there for her stem cell transplant right now too. It was great seeing so many old faces from the nurses to the transplant coordinators, to the nutritionist who encouraged me to keep eating melty cheese, ha! There was a survivor's celebration which we were so late for we missed meeting my doctor's wife and son and hearing the speaker and all the stories. The speaker is an artist who published a book where he drew a picture everyday after his stem cell transplant. He works in Hollywood doing artwork for t.v. shows and movies and is very talented. Testing out my stomach on the way home, we stopped at Cheesecake Factory for a delicious meal that would have put me under if my problem had been gallstones! That was one full day and it had only been 1 day since I had been discharged from the hospital for the stomach ailment!
A few friends are taking me out to dinner tonight for my birthday at Fresco Cafe, one of my favorite local spots. Aren't they sweet? Tomorrow we're going to spend time with Trevor and possibly go looking for a dog some more. Sunday we have our friends from China visiting for church and lunch. And next week I'm going to try to get some good rest time in. My next doctor appt. at UCLA isn't until mid-August. I've been burning out on doctors visits lately so I'm glad for the break. I probably should get my blood work done next week and check in with my local oncologist just to be safe though.
I hope you all have been enjoying your July and I look forward to hearing from you soon! And thank you dear friends for continuing to pray for me. I'm tired and weak and your prayers are what keep me lifted up to win the battle before me.